Perfectionism often gets confused with having high standards. For me, this has meant that I’d revised a chapter countless times before sending it to my mentors for feedback because I felt that it just wasn’t right. But here’s the problem: the “right” version doesn’t exist. It’s an illusion—painfully shattered when you get back said chapter with lots of critical comments from your mentor. Conversely, something that you think is “average” might actually be good enough for your mentor. It’s good to have high standards, but don’t kill yourself over them. “Good enough” tends to be good enough. Check out Petra Kolber’s TED talk titled “The Perfection Detox” for some sharp insights into the perils of perfectionism. “Eat the Elephant one bite at a time”

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